Copyright The Student Room 2023 all rights reserved. My libido has skyrocketed, we have more intense sex. Stop reducing us and trying to explain away our existence. He has put on nearly 250 pounds, and I intend to keep getting him even fatter! I'll start off by saying that I am madly in love with my boyfriend. 5. So I recently asked my husband that if he could choose what weight I could be, what would he choose (Im 55 and WAS about 125 pounds). Plus, people have divorced for far, far less. By rejecting non-essential cookies, Reddit may still use certain cookies to ensure the proper functionality of our platform. Enjoy what you have! Ive always been on the diet side of the conversation, but now that Ive put on some weight, I understand the obesity side much more. Should I tell him? There are three things that should influence your weight goals: 1. So even if your husbands skinny fat looks good to you and himself, he might actually be suffering from serious health issues. but I'm not sure I want to anymore. Youll find that this will help put 25+ pounds on your hubby as you start your married life and then you can increase his portion size to get another 25 pounds on him by your first anniversary. Last year she had gastric bypass. Moreover, many people dont take action even after knowing because they think its fine as long as they look good, though its not. He used to be slim and in shape, and now, he looks like a butterball. He said he's put on ~30 pounds in the last year. Plump is the new normal. I've never really had to worry about her not gaining--she loves to eat too much to not keep getting fatter. So now they are fattening each other up!! I am around 400lb now and my husband loves me I've away been on big side . But Danny, 46, is no longer the lean, dark, handsome type she fell for. turns out all i was was fat. I talked for a long time and don't remember everything I said but the energy was, "I am awesome, I am doing the best I can, and my . In the mean time, I'm just enjoying her massive belly and butt and great s**. In comparison to what he looked like before (~150 pounds on that frame) of course he looks fat, but now he seems average like any guy his height. Cant explain it either. When we got married, my 5'5" wife was chubby at 175 lbs. Im pushing close to 150, and Ive never been this big! Do maintenance loans classify as income in student finance application? She has had some good luck with a few online specialty retailers. She got diabetes of pregnancy right toward the end, but still kept pigging out. Ive tried, but shes just not comfortable talking about it. My lovely wife had been gaining weight over the years, then, at one point, when she was around 255 pounds (5'5") she decided, enough, time to go on a diet. skinny and exercise every day but still not physically fit, Rejected from uni and feeling kind of down. Dear Wendy: "My Boyfriend's Getting Fat". His messed-up mind tells him, "Nobody will want a fat . How does she feel about it? . Whether it is actresses blowing up after pregnancy or menopause or billionaires with bulging bellies inflating with fat. In the first year she gained almost 30 pounds. Im used to being in charge of things. By the way I should admit that I like how he looks and the security that he shows in himself. Love love love that belly of his pressing onto mine!!! She loves to tease me with saying I think I need to gain a few 100 pounds and it's an honest statement because she says please feed me some more. My husband is always grabbing my love handles ( having kids, I can't get rid of them no matter how hard I try). My husband is getting fat and I like it looks good to me. Have you been gaining any weight? Oh yes. Lot to loose but for you it sounds like you may have made your mind up. So I told her that she didn't need to lose weight for me and that I would love to feed her back up to at least her previous 400lbs. So its not a lack of honesty, its just that shes not ready to talk about it and Im respecting that. Want to read confessions and comments uncensored? Wow. My suggestion is to talk about it and if both of you can't come to an agreement and it doesn't sound like you're meant to be together. My wife was always fit, when we were first dating she almost had a six pack. What ideas does he have? A couple of years ago I thought of having gastric bypass surgery but am glad I didn't because it would have ruined my marriage . He calls it belly s**, but it usually leads to the real thing. I like my girlfriend's weight gain. It would be wonderful if we didnt ascribe any meaning at all to someones weight. Hopefully, this time next January, I'll will be waddling at the 350 lb mark. I love his weight on me when we f uck, but now it's getting hard for us to fit except for certain positions, but we make it work! I hope he still gains in the coming years. My kind of man! Cant really explain it. I can eat what I want when I want and my husband don't mind. I was chubby when I was a kid, so my parents sent me to fat camp. It is so much fun to watch a slightly chubby women lose control and pack on the pounds after marriage. now the simple sight of her naked huge body turns me on so much it drives me nuts! She just wasn't comfortable with her weight and did it anyway. Love fat women, they just look so good. Its not like he doesnt know hes gained weight. You can't force someone to have the same kinks as you. Put that extra fat on girl - he loves the blubber. I wouldnt mind a chubby hubby! If so, how do I do it? S** just keeps getting better each year, and she has said she doesn't plan to change her eating habits until she's 500. It's pretty clear he is sending the message of his likes by suggesting you gain more. I want to be a My husband is getting fat and I love it! I havent been a pig about it. A link that will let you reset your password has been emailed to you. My wife has to lift my massive belly to have s**. The next time a "gift-giving holiday" rolls around, buy him a gym membership. It really hurt my feelings. Definitely not my choice. As I stated previously many of the kids at my oldest daughter's school seen to be quite chubby but none are as chubby as my daughter. You should always seek an expert opinion if you need to. Its not weird at all; many people actually find chubby spouses adorable instead of repulsive, thinking they resemble a cute little teddy bear, and cuddling with them at night would be extra comfortable. If it bothers you, you will always be mad atHim for encouraging you to pack on some pounds. I feed him well, he likes to snack and his fat . . Her goal is now to continue gaining to 400! How would I say anything? Say yes but don't do anything. Finding a feedee that is completely comfortable with gaining huge amounts of weight is a rare thing indeed. You can be disappointed and angry and impatient and sad about not feeling horny for your partner, for how your sex life is going, for what your relationship is right now. On our tenth anniversary she was 295 lbs, and on our 20th she weighed 360. Yep . Working out is when I feel the difference the most. Does she know you love her fatter from the beginning or did she start gaining and you always seems to appreciate her figure?With stocking the freezer and pantry is she aware that you want her to keep gaining or does she mention it to you?How big do you think she will get or want her to get? Yesterday, I accused her of being a pusher and patted my fat belly and she just raised her eyebrows. Anonymous confessions, stories and advice. I m not so sure its a fetish for everyone. How much do you miss being slim and skinny? How much did you weigh when you got married? Trying to fatten up my gastric GF with booze - it helps. Avoid having serious conversations with him. Only a few people have noticed so far. Hes stopped caring for a pet! She gave birth to a 10 pound baby and she lost maybe around 15 with the birth but started gaining again shortly after. I try my best to still have fun but I feel like I been betrayed. Copyright 20052023 ConfessionPost.com. No. Here's the thing. Purposely making a child obese is call abuse. Get a clue you fat slob. Official Oxford 2023 Postgraduate Applicants Thread, How to handle colleague/former friend rejection again, Official Cambridge Postgraduate Applicants 2023 Thread, The Cambridge College Hurt/Heal Game [part 2], Andrew Tate arrested for human trafficking, are there more doors or wheels in the world, The Official Love Island Thread Winter 2023, History NEA- John Guy Historian validity and analysis. There is nothing you have to gain from telling your partner that theyve gained weight and that you arent as horny for them because of it. so he gets the calories and and resulting fat. But unless you know me really well, its not super noticeable. About 7 months ago I met this very sexy girl who is quite tall at 5'10" and so much fun and weighs 476 as of 5 days ago. This 250 lb tub is already gaining. Ive tried to be very vocal and physical to show her how much I love her new size, and I think she is starting to believe me. He didn't give a real clear reason. He always has had a great appetite, and I like to see men get fat, so I keep him well fed and only cook really fattening dishes, which he loves. My wife loves to serve me a massive portion,casually mentioning that I do not have to eat it all. In high school my jeans were 30/30. Maybe your boyfriend likes it as much as you do, so he is not particularly worried about it. But a . I mean it seems much more common than you would think. My wife was 170 and 5'6" when we met 20 years ago and she now weighs 530 pounds and I just love it and can't keep my hands off of all her fat. Or she just loves you, wants you to be happy and doesnt care about your marriage waddle. 1,500 calories in fatty fast food is much different than 1500 calories of lean protein and vegetables. Is this something new she has been doing? :). Like I said, it took some pressure off to know how he felt. It was just me trying to neigh the my instincts of becoming a complete blob. Dunno, half and half I guess. I was at a friend's birthday party at a bar when I saw my future boyfriend Brian from across the room, talking to the birthday boy. Anyone getting fat for a new years resolution? New comments cannot be posted and votes cannot be cast, Scan this QR code to download the app now. Drink some more soda than before. Make your intentions and desires known up front before you commit. Your second paragraph was unnecessary and sounds like excuses. Its just attractive to me. I don't know. Show up, love him, give yourself a break, forgive yourself, keep loving him. Had a lot of naughty meetings too as a result - guys coming to enjoy her and play. Its actually been a lot of fun to just eat whatever I want whenever I want. With her size now I have to have her track pants made and forget undergarments bras and panties they don't make any large enough for her. Im sure there are more examples that didnt make it into your letter that are not exercise-related. THIS IS GOING TO KILL YOU!!! Ice cream poke poke. I know my wife, who loves to eat too much to worry about how fat she is or will become, really started to pack on the pounds after she became friends with a coworker who is even fatter the she is. I dont think she wanted a portly husband. Hi guys, how are you doing? In Covid I gained 51 pounds. I like my men very chubby, so I kept feeding him up. No it's not the only one - but it's a pretty big one! How much weight has he gained? I was surprised how attracted I was to my hubby as he started piling on some pounds. He loves to eat and at the end of a long day I love to see him happy. Two things: 1- Your boyfriend is a tit. If youve gained 20 pounds, you are likely still not in the obese category of BMI ranges, and maybe the overweight section. My brothers wife weighed 160 pounds when they got married 2 years ago. My belly is sticking out right now from yet another demonstration of my lack of self control. Or when I clean my plate, shell compliment me on doing a good job. In that time I've put on some weight, around 40 pounds, but I've made sure my husband got really fat. How can you not go along if she's eating and you're not? Whenever I observe how fat Ive gotten, my wife just raises her eyebrows and smiles seductively. But it also doesnt make for an easy relationship, in part because it often leads to feelings like you described of guilt or self-flagellation. He used to run, but now he hardly exercises at all, he barely even walks the dog (it's his dog and now I do almost all of the walking). Id also love for you to go to therapy, but I know thats a longer process. Its not like hes unhealthy big but after 20 years together he is about 125 pounds bigger which sounds like a lot when I type it but really isnt. A girl who loves big boys finally finds one who likes to eat. She gets teased enough by her skinnier classmates as is. I'm a 14 yo virgin who hasn't had my period,is that normal? As I stated, life is interesting and I wouldn't change a single thing for all the money in the world. My wife has been more aggressive in her encouragement of me eating. Now, she says, his 6-ft.-1-inch frame is "more than a little fleshy and mushy" and the weight . He is forever touching and rubbing me, he has the best hands!! It also helps that he now works from home most of the time, sitting at the computer. My cooking is too good! I spent enough time growing it! But more skinny than fat. The helpless surrendering to eating and gaining just makes it all the better. I wouldnt say its a really noticeable gain so far unless Im in a swimsuit. I'm surprise that child services has not removed your children from your care. He loves it, which is refreshing. He will grow for you. For more information, please see our Just be honest and upfront and complementary of her new size and shape. Once you have taken care of his diet, make sure your husband engages in regular strength training like lifting heavy weights to increase his muscle growth and Lean Body Mass because that will eventually increase the Basal Metabolic Rate or BMR. We've been married for just about 5 years also, and I too have gained right around 100 pounds. Gain together - mutual gaining is great you get to point out where he is getting fat and needs to size up - poke poke - and he gets to see your belly rolls! 20 years later she has passed 325 pounds and still slowly gaining, we both love her size. On the days that I need to be on the road, my mother-in-law helps out as my wife is growing too fat to take care of the kids and the house at the same time. She seemed so confused with how Fat I became and continued to grow she didnt even seem to mind that she was now the heaviest she had ever been as well. As they widen and bulge they advertise their greed and indulgence to the world. Just a few ideas. 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